Ask a Witch: "I believe I have been cursed by my ex-lover because my love life is horrible. What should I do?"
Question: "I was engaged to a Haitian man almost 6yrs ago and ever since I broke it off I feel there’s been this streak of awful luck in love and dating. Things seem fine and then all of a sudden people disappear on me out of nowhere, the 2 guys I have actually dated in 6yrs only lasted exactly 3 months each. It’s like a black cloud that won’t go away is above my head. My question is, is this spell strong enough to break what might possibly be a Haitian curse/hex? And how do I get protection afterwards as I’ve never practiced magick myself?" - Anonymous
Our word of advice is to immediately stop giving power to something that may or may not be real or true. Stop affirming it. A curse and a a few years of a crappy love life are two very different things. Do not assume you have been cursed. By affirming you have bad luck or that someone has hexed you, you are literally giving away your power and are manifesting a self-aimed curse. In other words, you are cursing yourself.
Love spells are extremely effective and long-lasting, but only if you follow these six secrets of Old World Witchcraft to ensure successful love spells. (You won't want to miss #6...)
But before we dive into the magickal considerations, we need to set one very basic matter straight: Exactly how does a love spell work?
Imagine each person being surrounded by an energy field full of particles that are the energetic interpretation of the persons thoughts, emotions and inner desires.
These particles are responsible for forming the persons reality, their reactions and their external desires. When a person does not love you (or have the feelings you desire them to have for you), it simply means those energetic particles are not present in their external energy field – because they are not naturally internally present.
What love spell magick does is it energetically inserts those desired energetic particles into the targets energy field. In a sense, it works like a virus or radiation. By surrounding the target with the energy of the desired effect, the targets energy field becomes “contaminated” with new thoughts, desires and in turn: actions.
If and when the “contamination” is persistent and magickally performed properly, the result will be a thorough seep into the physical and emotional mind of the target.