Please note, although this ritual can certainly be used on ex-lovers, it will not singlehandedly make them come back to you. When there is energetic resistance (bruised emotions, resentment, etc.), the resistance has to addressed first. This can be done through the Spellbound Ritual, which can attract the person back into your life and will naturally facilitate communication. Same goes for estranged lovers -- and high school boyfriends from 1993. Time weakens energetic resonance and telepathic connections.
For most, this ritual will only need to be performed once to obtain results.
When to Perform:
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You Will Need:
- One Old World Ritual Candle for each night of the ritual.
- Organic Mugwort Powder - Communication, Divination & Spirit Contact
- For romantic communication:
- For non-romantic communication, such as with family and friends:
- For financial-related communications:
- Photograph of the target where the eyes are clearly visible, along with the upper body. Use a printed photo on basic paper – not glossy.
- Pen or marker
- Fireproof surface, such as a stone or thick metal tray.
- Lighter or matches
- The target's biological material, such as hair, nail clippings, dried sexual fluid, etc.
- Although not absolutely mandatory, the biological material creates a strong energetic link and significantly expedites manifestation.
- Piece of tape to secure biological material to photo
- Optional but strongly recommended: Mugwort Smudge Bundle - Divination & Communication
Ritual Instructions:
Take a deep breath and allow your body and your mind to relax. Hold the target's photograph between the palms of your hands. In your mind's eye, visualize the target in their current circumstances and surroundings.
Affirm to yourself the exact intention you are setting, such as:
"{target's name} I am always on your mind, and you call me daily."
"{target's name} we have open communication, and you freely express your true feelings to me."
Step 2: Begin chanting your mantra. As you do, write one of the below statements on the photograph over and over again, until you run out of room:
SPEAK TO ME WITH LOVE
SPEAK TO ME WITH LOVE
OR
CALL ME CALL ME CALL ME
CONTACT ME NOW
CALL ME CALL ME CALL ME
Sit in this energetic harmony for as long as you feel comfortable. You will have an inner knowing when it is time to proceed to the next step.
Step 4: Tape the biological material to the middle of the photograph while chanting your mantra.
Step 5: Place the candle on top of the target's photo, slowly rolling the candle back and forth across the image. This allows the beeswax to pick up the energies of the target. Beeswax absorbs and expands energies.
Step 6: Dust the Old World Ritual Candle with equal parts of the suggested herbs (top of this post) most appropriate for your situation.
Create the mental and emotional energy of your target reaching out to you. Calling you. Texting you. Emailing you. Imagine your face etched on your target's brain. Consciously make a telepathic connection between their energy field and yours.
Step 7: Hold the Old World Ritual with one hand and light with the other, all while chanting your mantra.
Step 8: Hold the candle at a 45-degree angle and start dripping the wax over your target's image. As you do so, continue chanting your ritual mantra. Drip a couple of drops right in the center of the photo, preferably where the body of the target is (heart area). Holding at the base of the candle, place it in the center of the pool of wax, and apply firm pressure to hold it upright. The Old World Ritual candles are made entirely out of pliable beeswax and will stay upright without a candleholder.
Note: It may take you a few attempts to get the hang of this holder-less method, but once you do, it will forever be in your occult repertoire.
Step 9: Stare into the flame for a couple of minutes as you continue chanting your ritual mantra. Sit in meditation. Feel the serenity and joy of knowing that the work is done and the energy is currently penetrating your target.
As the candle burns, light the Mugwort Smudge Bundle from the flame of the candle. Mugwort opens energetic gateways to communication - both with this world and the spiritual. Light one end of the Mugwort smudge stick and allow it to burn 10-15 seconds. Gently blow to put out the flame. Place the Mugwort a fireproof bowl and place on your ritual table.
Note: This is a very strong, powerful herb and does not need to be burned fully during each session. Burn and extinguish as needed. Simply burn 1/2" to 1" at a time, then firmly push down the smoldering ashes into the fireproof bowl.
Step 10: The Old World Ritual Candles burn 20-45 minutes. The burn time depends on the temperature in the room, any possible drafts, and the amount of herbs used.
If the candle extinguishes itself in its own pool of wax, take it as a sign that the ritual must be repeated, up to 6 consecutive nights. Repeat ritual the following night, re-using the same wax-dripped photo, starting at Step 6.
If the flame of the candle catches the photo on fire and consumes it, take it as a sign that the energies successfully permeated. Nonetheless, if your target is estranged, repeat for up to 6 consecutive nights starting from Step 1.
Step 11: If by the 6th night the photo is still not burned, you may burn it outdoors or in a sink, whichever is the safest and most convenient method for you.
Ritual Remnant Disposal: Holding the ashes from the ritual in your right hand, go outside and face the approximate direction of your target. State your mantra once more and blow the ashes. This will rapidly send the energy towards your target.
Questions? Feel welcome to comment below.
Love & Magick,
Dacha Avelin